Have you ever felt something special for a person, that everytime that person comes near, your heart beats faster? And every time you see each other, you feel like the wind is blowing and the music is playing? And then suddenly, you realize that it was just a wishful thinking.
We are designed to love because as we are created out of it. I am not only referring to "Eros" which is the love you feel for your special someone, but also to “Philia" which is the love we feel for our friends, siblings and parents, and the "Agape" which is the love that we refer to His Highness.
Since we are of the so-called living souls, it is inevitable for us to feel the Eros love to a person. When we reach our pubescent age, we then set off to admire another living soul whatever individual standards we may have for a person. The process didn’t stop there; this admiration will turn into infatuation, and when you get in your prime, I mean being mature, this infatuation will widen the artful meaning of love.
There is no concrete detail of a reference that a person can avoid this feeling. Again, and I’ll say it one more time, it is INEVITABLE. As long as we are breathing, our hypothalamus will continuously dictate us who we want or who we like.
Indeed, we cannot avoid falling in love. But admiring or being in love with a person, is not a valid reason for someone to get into a relationship. Of course, just like what Bro. Eli is always reminding us, we have to be prepared- physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually. Oh to mention; financially.
In spite of having the symptoms of this "ailment," if you feel an exquisite thing is about to start, and yet you are not prepared in all aspects, do not take the risk. It is better to end something that hasn't started yet before you realize that it is too late.
Just a second. I just need to get this thing off my chest.
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